You just feel people don’t do what you want them to do and don’t even want to compromise. They just stick with their view towards life and refuse to change… Then, they come to you and blame you for being at the wrong time in the wrong place, meeting wrong people, saying wrong things, looking at something wrong and dreaming of something wrong again… Who is the one to tell us what is right and what is wrong? What is wrong for you – might be perfectly right for me! Have you though about that..? Maybe your view towards life isn’t the right one? Maybe… Oh well… People are people and everything is about perception. It’s about how you see and interpret things. Don’t blame other girls/guys for stealing your boyfriend/girlfriend just because you don’t want to make more effort as you feel you ‘got him/her’.. Make sure she/he is interested in you and if you’re the BEST then why would he/she go anywhere else?! Don’t blame the world for boring job and think that people are weird if they enjoy it -- think of how you can make most of every moment you live! Don’t blame God for doing bad things to you, God’s nature is different. Blame Satan for all the bad things that has happened to you. And yes, it takes a lot of time and even more pain to realise that your friends want to help you, not to hurt you.. You probably misunderstood their words and actions. Just talk… All these phone companies and free internet sites offering you this FREE communication! FRE FREE FREE!!! But, if you can meet up in real – life, use it. I’d rather have a few good friends in real life than thousands of them on internet..
Don’t complain how fat you are. Do something about it! Most slim people live healthy lives, move a lot and eat only good food. It takes effort to look good. And you’ll need to adapt a different lifestyle and forget about fast food and start cooking GOOD food! During the war there were no fat people. Remember that. We overeat and we certainly eat a lot more than we should. I was taught by my dad since I was a baby how to live healthily and having a fast metabolism help as well. But remember, I could certainly eat FASTER than my metabolism works!But I just choose not to! ;) My dad always told me to eat my main meal around 3-4PM, eat slowly and not to have any desserts if I’m full. In the evening we used to have some bread, jam and milk. No heavy dinners or pizzas at 9 o’clock! My dad is still slim and healthy. I hope for the same when I’m his age. ;P
Don’t come to me for advice if you’re gonna flush it all down the toilet. I know I talk a lot but quite often I tell you things that I know works/helps. I often have people telling me their problems, I try to help, they get angry with me coz they don’t want to listen to me and after a while they get back to me saying I was right. What for?! Just listen and do as I’m saying in the first place, it’ll save you time and emotional distress! I’m not telling you to break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend coz I want your boyfriend/girlfriend. It’s because I can see that it’s not going to work and I’m trying to save you from suffering in the future! So far, I was never wrong about dysfunctional/unhappy/with
And finally… Learn to stay still. Staying still is very important in order to listen to yourself. Ask yourself what kind of person you want to be and think of what you can do to become THAT person. Maybe you need to learn to give? Or maybe you need to learn to relax..? And DO invest your time in people that want to be your friends. Open ALL doors in Life, even if you know nobody is behind them, you won't be sure until you see it for yourself. ;) There might not be a person behind those doors, might be an opportunity to do something good or becme a better person..
Ok. This was such a good public off-load.. ;D I can go back to work now.
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